Yes! This is great. As adults, we should all be responsible for our inner thoughts and feelings BUT should act publicly in a way that causes changes. Why should any adult care what any other adult feels prior to accepting that certain behaviors are moral??
Personally, I don't care what anybody else feels in order to come to the appropriate conclusion; I care that they come to the conclusion. Why should I care if White pp feel shame or happiness, as long as they admit their extrinsic privilege and do something about it?
You say it so well, Marley!