The refusal to admit the massive extrinsic benefits enjoyed by whites as a group is a moral rift shared by most whites in a massive delusion.
The word ‘moral’ is not used frequently enough; some maintain that this will turn most whites off, but the reality is that any mention of moral behavior turns whites off because it tells an ugly truth they, as a rule, don’t want to see.
As you point out, it is not the job of the oppressed to enlighten the oppressor. POC will continue to perform in what are often superlative ways while whites continue to take things that belong to us while simultaneously refusing to return things their ancestors stole. All of this is a position of immorality.
At some point, it simply won’t matter. POC are functioning at a higher level at least in part because we have to in order to expect even a fraction of the success that mediocre whites have stolen — and continue to steal — from higher-performing POC’s. At some point, this actual value will trump the superficial one of watching while rewards others have earned fall into white laps.
This sort of immorality, whether conscious or not, will only be tolerated by POC until the POC population reaches a critical mass and pushes back. Until then, white people able to see the profound privilege which has granted them so much for free at the expense of actual performers and POC actually exhibiting true merit should be informing other clueless whites of their subconscious immorality.
For a discussion on immoral delusions and hallucinations such as white superiority, see:
A refusal to consider one’s immorality will not stop victims from pushing back once they are able.