Thanks for this input! However, there are certain comments that express racialized and/or ethnocentric elements, and these comments and thoughts are expressed. You see, some of the comments ARE about race and/or ethnicity, as I described.
In these cases, I take the person at face value. Someone who tells you white women are better has made an overtly racist comment, and this happens.
I appreciate your input as a person in a mixed-race marriage...